I really want to stop being gay. At the same time, I don't want to live a lie. I don't want to date a girl while hiding my true feelings for guys.
What do you recommend? Church, Counseling, or what?
Is it even possible to change?
What do you recommend? Church, Counseling, or what?
Is it even possible to change?
best answer:
The only reason people are telling you it's Okay to be Gay is because the more gay people there are, the more Normal it will seem....
Homosexuals are just trying to protect themselves by hiding behind a huge conglomerate of gay people.
The bottom line is, both society and religion Frown upon homosexuality. I'm pretty sure you're about to stop reading my answer right about now, but you have to realize that there IS an alternative to homosexuality which is completely normal, appreciated, and, well... Ethical. Yes, I DO mean heterosexuality.
Homosexuals tell you that life's too short, so just appreciate who you are. Well, that's just a bunch of crap talk. If life's too short, then you should try your best to improve your faults.
And you're almost Halfway there since you've already started disdaining your homosexual tendencies.
A straight guy can NEVER have a sexual/Intimate relation with a guy because it's just.... Wrong. Notice, I said "wrong" and not "disguisting".
The same thing MAY apply to homosexuals. That is, they could never even imagine themselves kissing, cuddling and being intimate with a girl. But they could at least TRY because they have their conscience, religion, an ethical standpoint, the whole heterosexual population and Society Backing them up, supporting their every attempt at change and telling them they're doing the right thing.
If you think in this perspective, you just might diverge back to women.
Homosexuals are just trying to protect themselves by hiding behind a huge conglomerate of gay people.
The bottom line is, both society and religion Frown upon homosexuality. I'm pretty sure you're about to stop reading my answer right about now, but you have to realize that there IS an alternative to homosexuality which is completely normal, appreciated, and, well... Ethical. Yes, I DO mean heterosexuality.
Homosexuals tell you that life's too short, so just appreciate who you are. Well, that's just a bunch of crap talk. If life's too short, then you should try your best to improve your faults.
And you're almost Halfway there since you've already started disdaining your homosexual tendencies.
A straight guy can NEVER have a sexual/Intimate relation with a guy because it's just.... Wrong. Notice, I said "wrong" and not "disguisting".
The same thing MAY apply to homosexuals. That is, they could never even imagine themselves kissing, cuddling and being intimate with a girl. But they could at least TRY because they have their conscience, religion, an ethical standpoint, the whole heterosexual population and Society Backing them up, supporting their every attempt at change and telling them they're doing the right thing.
If you think in this perspective, you just might diverge back to women.
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